Love, lust, & lectures: pros and cons of dating at uni

Natalia Wilkowskaon 14 October 2022
A couple enjoying a coffee date

Is uni the time to meet your soulmate, or will you be too busy doing hot girl shit?

Becoming a student is a turning point for young people. Not only because of the university itself but also because of the people we meet during this period. You will meet many people with whom you’ll stay friends forever. But your love life will also have a most significant impact at this time! It can be life-changing. Perhaps at uni, you’ll meet your first great love. Get ready for it! But make sure you think about these pros and cons of dating at uni: 

Nobody will get you like another student

Dating another student can be very helpful. In times of crisis, such as an important deadline, your significant other will help you relax and stay motivated. They’ll be your best study buddy! Nobody will better understand the nights spent studying in the library than another student. Maybe you’ll be lucky and will have a day off or two together in the week Plus, nothing sweeter than when your other half picks you up after a day apart. 

It can be distracting

Dating involves spending a lot of time with the other person. It can be distracting during your lectures when you text or talk with each other instead of focusing on the lecturer. So it can affect your concentration and even translate into slightly worse grades. The most important thing is balance and setting your priorities. If you want to focus on learning, date when you are sure you don't have any serious deadlines ahead of you. Dating is great, but your time at uni will go faster than you think.

Ready or not?

On one hand, you often hear from your parents or grandparents that they met at university, they fell in love, and they had you. And they’re still together, with several decades of experience! Who wouldn't? Relationships formed at this point often last for many years. If you get along with your partner, you have a similar vision for the future and shared plans, you’ll have nothing to worry about. Uni could be the time for a mature, serious relationship. 

But on the other hand... uni is the best time to experiment, figure out what you like, party, and meet people, all while focusing on your own goals. Some are just not ready for a relationship, and while for some, there is nothing wrong with it, for others, it can be a problem and even end up hurting. Therefore, when dating, ensure that you’re on the same page as your partner.

What's next?

Being a student is just one part of your life. It doesn’t last that long. Think about what’s next. You may or may not find the love of your life. How will this affect the plans you have for yourself? Will your partner support you in them, or maybe they’ll hold you back? There are lots of decisions to make. What if your hometowns are far away or you are from countries on two different continents? If you are thinking about a relationship, you should consider how that will factor into your future. Who knows? After uni, you could conquer the world together!

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Natalia Wilkowskaon 14 October 2022